Tuesday, February 8, 2011

The art of Influencing People

How to Bring The Best Out in People....

So many times we are so ready to find the faults in a person rather than the good things they do. It is such a shame to find faults and not what they do good. I have found that you need to build people up in life and not take them apart. It is not always their fault for who they have become in life nor what makes them who they are in life. Take the time to find the good in that person and help them develope the good.

 Things You'll Need:

  • compasion
  • a heart to listen
  • love for human kind
  • understanding 


  • Find out what makes the person in question is all about. Some people just need to have encouragement. compliment the person in what they are doing good. If they make a mistake don't critize them but show them how to improve on the thing they are trying to do or say. 
  •  Try to make a positive impression on people instead of the negative. Smile at the people you are talking to and show your good side and not the angry side. Show them the example of how to be and not how not to be. A little kindness can go a long way. If you can't be pleasent then walk away instead of telling someone how bad they are.
  • Bringing out the best in people can be shown in love and kindness. Tell them the positive about them and tell them, they are important and soon they will believe you. Show them the beauty that is in them. Be caring and not grumpy with them or rude. You don't let your bad day be what makes others have a bad day. Show them how to have a good attitude in a positive way.